Miss World vs Miss World Muslimah: What’s the Difference, Anyway?
Women have been competing with one another to be the most beautiful for centuries. Beauty pageants like Miss World and Miss World Muslimah have been established based on the notion that there is a...
View ArticleIs Instagram Deleting Women For Being Fat?
Recently, the social media app Instagram has been under major scrutiny. As the site attempts to maintain a comfortable environment for its users, it ends up deleting profiles it had no right to remove...
View ArticleThis Video Will Make You Rethink Every Song You Sing Along To
Yesterday I discovered an internet gem. It’s a video of poet Madiha Bhatti speaking some serious truth in the most beautiful way possible. If you’re like me, you probably have to watch it a couple...
View ArticleThe 10 Worst Analogies for Sexual Purity
I heard my first misogynistic analogy of sexual purity as a very small child, watching the movie The King and I. My mom has passed down a love of musicals to me and my sisters, so this was one of many...
View ArticleCelebrating Your Body is Never an Excuse For Putting Down Another
As humans, we tend to organize things into binaries; good and evil, men and women, black and white, and so on. Among these is the binary of fat and thin. Of course a spectrum of various body types...
View ArticleLearning Not to Hate Myself as a Fat Girl in the Real World
Until two weeks ago, I lived in a bubble. Born and raised in Charlotte, NC, I moved to Asheville, a small San Francisco-esque city in the Blue Ridge Mountains, for college in 2009. From fall 09 until...
View ArticleIf You Hate Fat People For Being Unhealthy, Do You Also Hate Yourself?
I don’t think I have to do much to convince you that fat hatred, or fatphobia, is real. People actively hate fat people all the time. They comment on their bodies and give fat people dirty looks for...
View ArticleThe Dirty Problems Behind “Clean” Eating
Content ahead includes discussion of diet, restrictive eating, and disordered eating. Look at any recent diet book, food blog, or Pinterest board from the past year or so and you’ll be sure to find...
View ArticleMy Self-Worth is All Tangled Up With My Physical Strength
Using a tactic I learned from an overachiever friend of mine, I volunteered recently at an event so that I could get in for free, and also avoid the vast bulk of socialization. Just volunteer to work...
View ArticleTits Equals Tips: The Philosophy of the Service Industry
As a young person working her way through school, it’s only natural I’ve found myself serving and bartending. Despite making a “server’s wage” (lower than minimum), I usually make more than minimum...
View ArticlePlayboy Bunny Holly Madison Wanted to Kill Herself
Depression is a serious mental illness that affects 1 in 4 women, including Playboy Bunny Holly Madison. Despite admitting that “…[d]rowning myself seemed like a logical way to escape the ridiculous...
View ArticleI Don’t Want to be Attractive, I Want to Stop Existing
I wish I didn’t exist. That sounds extremely negative, but at times it’s very true. It’s different than being suicidal, although admittedly I’ve been there. It’s being exhausted by the sheer weight of...
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